Сочинение на тему конфликты на английском языке

Автор – Ирина Селезнева

Why do conflicts arise? A small percentage of people thought about it. In fact, such clashes occur because of differences of opinion. Every person involved in a conflict tries to prove their point of view, to prove that they are right. In such situations, people do not try to find a common language with each other. Conflict is a terrible thing. How many troubles happened because of him. For example, turning on the TV in the evening and watching the news. Every second report tells about conflicts between people. Some did not share space on public transport, some did not share family life, and politicians did not agree. 

You can face conflict every day. What should we do? I believe that we should try to resolve the conflict peacefully, try not only to listen, but also to hear the person. Here’s how you can understand your opponent’s point of view. In the modern world, there is no place for conflicts, you need to develop your horizons.

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Почему возникают конфликты? Небольшой процент людей думал об этом. На самом деле такие столкновения происходят из-за разногласий во мнениях. Каждый человек, вовлеченный в конфликт, пытается доказать свою точку зрения, доказать, что он прав. В таких ситуациях люди не пытаются найти общий язык друг с другом. Конфликт-это ужасная вещь. Сколько бед случилось из-за него. Например, включение телевизора вечером и просмотр новостей. Каждый второй отчет рассказывает о конфликтах между людьми. Некоторые не делили места в общественном транспорте, некоторые не делили семейную жизнь, а политики не соглашались.
Вы можете сталкиваться с конфликтом каждый день. Что же нам делать? Я считаю, что мы должны стараться разрешить конфликт мирным путем, стараться не только слушать, но и слышать человека. Вот как вы можете понять точку зрения вашего оппонента. В современном мире нет места конфликтам, нужно развивать свой кругозор.

Обновлено: 11.03.2023

The question of the relationships between adolescents and their parents is rather complicated and serious. Unfortunately, not all young people can boast of good relationships with their parents. The reasons may be very different, for example, the lack of understanding each other or a difference in their opinions. Also, parents and children may have different views about what a person should do in his free time, with whom he should be friends, what music one should listen to, etc. It is a very difficult period in the lives of both young people and their parents. The proper behavior during this period determines the relationships that will develop in the future, so the main task is to maintain a contact and a mutual respect.

In adolescence young people strive to become independent, but their parents consider them to be still dependent children. In such cases, both parents and children need to make an effort to resolve misunderstandings and get closer. Sometimes they need to talk to each other, explain their point of view and listen to the opinion of the second party. To achieve a balance in their relationships they must show a sincere love and care about loved ones, try to understand the position of another person. This applies to both teens and their parents. We should remember that if we show a respect to the opinion of another person the conflict can be avoided. In a case the conflict occurs, necessarily we need to find ways for the reconciliation.

Young people always should remember that all parents love their children very much and wish them only the best. The parents have a great vital experience and their advice may actually help in solving certain problems.

In their turn, parents should call to memory the time when they were teenagers themselves. They should not criticize the child, but they have to help the teen with his choosing of a right decision. It can only be done in a friendly conversation. They should not blame the teenager if he does not share their opinions and their outlook on life. If parents timely change their attitude to the maturing child, become tolerant to his shortcomings and allow him to make his own choice of clothes, friends or hobbies, they will be able to avoid many quarrels and conflicts in the future and help the child to gain a confidence in his abilities.

To sum it up, we can say that the question of the relationships between older and younger generations should be solved by establishing the partnerships, where each party has a right to his own point of view and his own choice.

Вопрос взаимоотношений между подростками и их родителями достаточно сложный и серьезный. К сожалению, не все молодые люди могут похвастаться хорошими отношениями с родителями. Причины могут быть самыми разными, например, непонимание друг друга или различие во взглядах. Также у родителей с детьми может расходиться мнение о том, чем нужно заниматься в свободное время, с кем дружить, какую слушать музыку и т.п. Это очень сложный период в жизни как молодых людей, так и их родителей. От правильного поведения в этот период зависят взаимоотношения, которые сложатся в будущем, поэтому главная задача — это сохранить контакт и взаимное уважение.

В юношеском возрасте молодые люди стараются стать самостоятельными, а родители видят их еще зависимыми детьми. В таких случаях как родителям, так и детям нужно приложить усилия, чтобы устранить непонимание и сблизиться. Иногда нужно поговорить друг с другом, объяснить свою точку зрения, выслушать мнение второй стороны. Для достижения равновесия во взаимоотношениях нужно прежде всего проявлять искреннюю любовь и заботу о близких людях, постараться понять позицию другого человека. Это касается как подростков, так и их родителей. Следует помнить о том, что если проявлять уважение к мнению другого человека, конфликта можно избежать. В случае, если происходит конфликт, обязательно нужно найти пути для примирения.

Молодым людям нужно всегда помнить, что родители очень любят своих детей и желают им только добра. Родители имеют большой жизненный опыт и возможно их совет действительно поможет в решении определенных проблем.

В свою очередь, родителям стоит вспомнить то время, когда они сами были подростками. Им следует не критиковать, а помочь ребенку определиться с выбором правильного решения. Это можно сделать только в дружественной беседе. И не стоит ругать подростка за то, что он не разделяет их мнения или взглядов на жизнь. Если родители своевременно изменят свое отношение к взрослеющему ребенку, станут терпимее к его недостаткам, оставят ему право выбора одежды, друзей или увлечений, то они смогут избежать многих ссор и конфликтов в будущем и помогут ребенку приобрести уверенность в своих силах.

Подводя итог, можно сказать что, вопрос взаимоотношений старшего и младшего поколений должен решаться путем установления партнерских отношений, где каждая сторона имеет право на свою точку зрения и свой выбор.

There is no doubt that the problem of parents and children is one of the most pressing issues in the modern world. Some people think that it is impossible to overcome differences between members of different generations, while others insist that people of different generations can meet each other halfway and even become bosom friends.

It is not uncommon that some parents often disapprove of their children’s musical preferences, clothing styles, political views and choice of friends. In my opinion, misunderstandings between parents and children cause many problems and may lead to serious conflicts. One simple solution that can be put forward is frank and open deep conversation. Hence, parents should understand that every child is an individual and that to err is human. Besides, some parents put much pressure on their children to perform well at school. In my view, parents should make children aware of the importance of study in their life, but they should not punish them for bad grades. I am convinced that the main task of every parent is to teach children the difference between right and wrong and to establish trust relationship with them. So, parents must express deep concern, be careful, sincere, loving and heedful of advice. They must also go with the times in order to understand their adolescents better and not be too exacting and adamant.

It should be also noted that nowadays the factors of generation differences are disappearing. Lots of parents listen to the same music, wear the same clothes and spend as much time on social networking as their children do.
On the other hand, there are people who insist that the problem of generation gap cannot be solved. According to their opinion, teenagers today are rude, cruel, lazy and ill-mannered. Most of them are addicted to gambling, computer, alcohol or drugs. Moreover, experts say that the cases of juvenile delinquency have been on the rise over the past years. In my judgment, one of the reasons for this problem is lack of moral values or attention. Moreover, the contributing factors of juvenile delinquency include poverty, parental divorce, domestic violence and corporal punishment. However, it becomes evident that all of them refer to the family conflicts. In my judgment it is precisely the family environment that constitutes a root problem. Experts say that most delinquents come from problem families. Their parents are often violent, cruel or abuse alcohol and drugs. In turn, their children show rebellious behavior and stop obeying them.

All in all, I think that all parents should better try to protect their adolescents from bad influences and give a helping hand rather than lecture them or decrease their self-esteem. I still strongly believe that people can bridge the generation gap by means of communication and mutual understanding.

Конфликт поколений (2)

Conflict is daily action between different individual or groups of people in absolutely different situations, for example, on works, in school, university, in family, in politics. It may happen because of differences of interests, goals, values, education. Sometimes we accumulate bad emotions and need to splash them out. From time to time we all have arguments with our parents because of age gap, or we argue with our brothers or sisters because we should share some things with each others.

Conflicts bring in our lives fear, frustration, anxious and others negative emotions. On the other hand, they may help to understand people’s emotions and interests. Understand peaceful resolution methods is key to harmony. Conflicts are inevitable but if we know how to negotiate we are be able to struggle with conflict and neutralize them.

One of my favorite phrases is when angry, count to ten before you speak; when very angry, count to a hundred. It’s a good strategy that helps to change focus. We need some time to calm down and then continue our dispute to turn it into agreement. It may be kind of advice. Another advice is listening. We should try to understand feeling of our opponents and respect them.

I can’t recommend any specific book about peace-making, but I always like reading magazines Psychology. You can read a lot of useful information about success communication techniques.

Конфликт это ежедневное действий между различными лицами или группами людей в совершенно разных ситуациях, например, на работе, в школе, университете, в семье, в политике. Он может произойти из-за различий интересов, целей, ценностей, образования. Иногда мы накапливаем плохие эмоции и нужно их выплеснуть. Время от времени все мы имеем ссоры с нашими родителями из-за разницы в возрасте, или мы спорим с нашими братьями и сестрами, потому что мы должны разделить некоторые вещи друг с другом.

Конфликты приносят в нашу жизнь страх, разочарование, беспокойство и другие негативные эмоции. С другой стороны, они могут помочь понять эмоции и интересы людей. Понимание методов мирного урегулирования конфликтов является ключом к гармонии. Конфликты неизбежны, но если мы знаем, как вести переговоры, мы сможем бороться с конфликтами и нейтрализовать их.

Одна из моих любимых фраз, когда сердишься, сосчитай до десяти, прежде чем говорить; когда очень сердит, считай до ста. Это хорошая стратегия, которая помогает изменить фокус. Нам нужно некоторое время, чтобы успокоиться, а затем продолжить наш спор, чтобы превратить его в соглашение. Это могут быть своего рода советы. Еще один совет- слушать. Мы должны попытаться понять чувства наших оппонентов и уважать их.

Я не могу рекомендовать какую-либо конкретную книгу о разрешении конфликтов, но я всегда люблю читать журналы по Психологии. Вы можете прочитать много полезной информации о успешных методах коммуникации.

Conflict is a natural thing in our life. Conflicts happen because people are different: they want different things, they have different ideas and their values are different. Very often we have conflicts because we don’t listen to each other.

There can be conflicts between family members, such as brothers and sisters, parents and children, between classmates, friends, roommates, colleagues, parties or states.

Conflicts may lead to fights, bad relations and violence; that is why it is very’ important to try to prevent conflicts.

You should be patient, listen to what other people say, respect their point of view and not criticize them all the time, because they also have the right to have their own ideas. Moreover, if people resolve conflicts peacefully, they will have better relations in the future.

Конфликт — это естественное событие в нашей жизни. Конфликты происходят из-за того, что все люди разные: они хотят разных вещей, у них разные идеи и цели. Очень часто люди конфликтуют, потому что они не слушают друг друга.

Конфликт может произойти в семье, например, между братьями и сестрами, родителями и детьми, между одноклассниками, друзьями, соседями по комнате, коллегами, странами или государствами.

Конфликты могут вести к ссорам, плохим отношениям и насилию, поэтому очень важно стараться избегать конфликтов.

Следует быть терпеливым, слушать, что говорят другие, уважать их мнение и не критиковать их все время, потому что у них тоже есть право иметь свои собственные идеи. Более того, если люди разрешают конфликты мирным путем, их отношения будут лучше в будущем.

50 Prepare a presentation for a students’ forum on conflict. Form groups of four and decide и hat each of you is going to.

• You may also recommend a book (fiction or non-fiction) about peace-making and explain • h this book is helpful. Use one or two of the.

*Цитирирование части задания со ссылкой на учебник производится исключительно в учебных целях для лучшего понимания разбора решения задания.

Do you know what a generation gap is? Even if you don’t know the particular definition, you are aware of this problem, basing on your own experience. Generation gap is a popular term used to describe serious differences between people of two generations.
To realize how to deal with it, you should keep in mind that generation gap includes several aspects: children must know as much as possible about their parents and parents — about the world outlook of their children, about relations between brothers and sisters, and also about the attitude to them of close relatives on both sides — father’s and mother’s.
Children demand a great deal of attention, time and patience, so, if you are not ready to devote all that to your baby, it is better not to hurry There are many families where both parents keep working after giving birth to their baby It is similar to the situation with a single-parent family, when a father or a mother hardly have enough time and neglect their children’s upbringing. In such cases most of the time the child has to spend on his own or with his friends. Due to the fact that he has not got any guidance from his parents he may be involved in some bad companies which commit violence or even crime and become alcohol or drug addicted. When the parents discover that, it’s usually too late to change anything.
On the other hand, there is a different situation when the parents treat their children too strict and don’t give them any freedom at all. In this case the children may become pariahs among their peers. Constant bans may increase the risk that the child will grow up insolent and defiant. This causes another big problem — lying. The child is forced to lie to the parents because of the fear to be punished. It can be anything from putting on make-up in the girls’ room at school to stealing.
Some children rebel against discipline and family values. They listen to a loud music, wear inappropriate, to their parents’ mind, clothes, dye their hair in inconceivable colours, have all their bodies pierced and tattooed trying to show their independence and establish their identity. They want to be treated as adults, but they are not ready to take all the necessary responsibilities. It doesn’t mean that your child is bad and he will become a criminal. Of course, not! It only means that your child is in his transitional age and he is in need of your understanding and support.
But how to handle such behaviour? Parents should become his close friends. First of all they should learn to respect his interests. Try to speak with him as often as possible, offer some parent-child activities like shopping or going in for sports. It is worth involving the child in discussing some family questions, just to show that he is a full member of the family. Moreover, children in their teens are very vulnerable when they are criticized in public, so try to avoid it. Parents should always be honest and sincere with their child; otherwise it would be unfair to require the same from him.
Too authoritarian parents can’t do any good to their children as well as parents who overindulge all the child’s caprices. Overindulgence may lead to the same results as negligence. There are parents who are afraid of hurting the child by banning something when it is necessary. Such parents risk becoming powerless in the family and losing control over their children who may become spoiled and capricious.
It demands to make a great effort from both parents and children to reach mutual understanding. There are many different opinions on the question of treating children if they disobey their parents, but every parent should decide for himself what will be best for his child and set him on the right path.

Конфликт поколений

1. Give your explanation of the notion «generation gap».
2. How do you think, which is the tensest period in the relationships between parents and their children?
3. What type of behaviour is usual for adolescents?
4. Have you noticed any changes in your own behaviour during the last years?
5. How would you characterize your relations with your parents?
6. Do you like to spend time with your family?
7. What is, in your opinion, the basis of healthy and peaceful relationship between parents and children?
8. Are you a spoiled child?
9. Do you approve of the way your parents brought you up?

10. What would you like to change in the way your parents brought you up?

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