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Everybody knows that having a child means taking great responsibility, but it is easier to think of it in theory than to put this in practice.

When we grow up children we must pay enough attention to them and try to support them in any way. We should show our love not by spoiling our children but by teaching them good things. We must be their best example and explain to them how to behave and treat people in different situations.

But that is not all because we must know how to behave, too. Many parents do major mistakes while bringing their children up. If parents have some unrealized desires and plans they had when they were younger, they often try to make their children do it for them.

The problem is the children must live their own life and have a choice. Children must be free to choose what to study, which sport to do and which profession to embrace. It is vital to let them express themselves because it is very difficult to be equal to all expectations of the parents.

Such children get hurt if they can’t satisfy their parents. They feel guilty and get depressed. That’s why it is important not to destroy our children’s life in such a way. We should remember they are not able to realize our ideas and plans and they don’t have to do it.

Перевод:

Каждый знает, что иметь ребенка – значит брать на себя огромную ответственность, но куда проще задумываться об этом в теории, чем применять на практике.

Когда мы растим ребенка, мы должны уделять ему должное внимание и стараться поддерживать его в любом случае. Нам следует показывать свою любовь, не балуя наших детей, а обучая их хорошим вещам. Мы должны быть лучшим примером и объяснять им, как себя вести и как обходиться с людьми в различных ситуациях.

Но это еще не все, потому что мы должны тоже знать, как себя вести. Многие родители делают серьезные ошибки, воспитывая своих детей. Если родители имеют какие-либо нереализованные мечты и планы, к которым они стремились, когда были моложе, то они часто пытаются заставить своих детей осуществить все это вместо них самих.

Проблема в том, что дети должны прожить свою собственную жизнь и иметь право выбора. Они должны иметь возможность выбрать то, что они хотят изучать, каким спортом хотят заниматься, и какой профессии себя посвятить. Очень важно дать им выразить себя, так как оправдывать ожидания родителей – очень не просто.

Такие дети страдают, если не могут удовлетворить своих родителей. Они чувствуют себя виноватыми и впадают в депрессию. Поэтому важно не разрушить жизнь наших детей таким образом. Мы должны помнить, что они не могут реализовать наших идей и планов, и они не должны делать этого.

Полезные выражения и слова по теме:

To put in practice – применять на практике

To spoil children – баловать детей

To bring up=to grow up – растить, воспитывать (детей)

To embrace a profession – избирать профессию

To be equal to one’s expectations – оправдывать чьи-либо надежды

To get depressed – впасть в депрессию

To feel guilty – чувствовать себя виноватым

CHILDREN UPBRINGING: DIFFICULT KIDS (TOPIC)

When we reach a certain age, we start thinking about children. The most important question and fear is «will I be able to raise a child correctly and how to raise him correctly in General?»

Parenting is a very important and responsible moment in the life of every parent. By raising children, we are educating the future. It is on what we give our children that their future fate may depend.

I think that one of the main goals that a parent should set for themselves is to raise a happy child. When we grow up children we must pay enough attention to them and try to support them in any way. We should show our love not by spoiling our children but by teaching them good things. We must be their best example and explain to them how to behave and treat people in different situations.

Children demand a great deal of attention, time and patience, so, if you are not ready to devote all that to your baby, it is better not to hurry There are many families where both parents keep working after giving birth to their baby It is similar to the situation with a single-parent family, when a father or a mother hardly have enough time and neglect their children’s upbringing. In such cases most of the time the child has to spend on his own or with his friends. Due to the fact that he has not got any guidance from his parents he may be involved in some bad companies which commit violence or even crime and become alcohol or drug addicted. When the parents discover that, it’s usually too late to change anything.

On the other hand, there is a different situation when the parents treat their children too strict and don’t give them any freedom at all. In this case the children may become pariahs among their peers. Constant bans may increase the risk that the child will grow up insolent and defiant. This causes another big problem — lying. The child is forced to lie to the parents because of the fear to be punished. It can be anything from putting on make-up in the girls’ room at school to stealing.

Some children rebel against discipline and family values. They listen to a loud music, wear inappropriate, to their parents’ mind, clothes, dye their hair in inconceivable colours, have all their bodies pierced and tattooed trying to show their independence and establish their identity. They want to be treated as adults, but they are not ready to take all the necessary responsibilities. It doesn’t mean that your child is bad and he will become a criminal. Of course, not! It only means that your child is in his transitional age and he is in need of your understanding and support.

But how to handle such behaviour? Parents should become his close friends. First of all they should learn to respect his interests. Try to speak with him as often as possible, offer some parent-child activities like shopping or going in for sports. It is worth involving the child in discussing some family questions, just to show that he is a full member of the family. Moreover, children in their teens are very vulnerable when they are criticized in public, so try to avoid it. Parents should always be honest and sincere with their child; otherwise it would be unfair to require the same from him.

Too authoritarian parents can’t do any good to their children as well as parents who overindulge all the child’s caprices. Overindulgence may lead to the same results as negligence. There are parents who are afraid of hurting the child by banning something when it is necessary. Such parents risk becoming powerless in the family and losing control over their children who may become spoiled and capricious.

It demands to make a great effort from both parents and children to reach mutual understanding. There are many different opinions on the question of treating children if they disobey their parents, but every parent should decide for himself what will be best for his child and set him on the right path.

In my opinion, the correct upbringing of a child consists in love, trust, attention and understanding. I want to say that only understanding and love will help to grow a happy person. Parents should be patient and love their children. They should let them make mistakes and learn from them.

Bringing up children

Reviewed by Stuart Crisp, paediatric specialist
registrar

Raising a child is one of the hardest, most
responsible and satisfying tasks a human being can face. It is also the job for
which people receive the least formal training.

Each person’s knowledge of how to bring up a child
usually comes from their surroundings and their own upbringing. This may result
in patterns from the parent’s own social experiences being repeated and passed
on to their children.

Parents are role models

Parents are the most influential role models children
are likely to have. Parents who pay compliments and show respect, kindness,
honesty, friendliness, hospitality and generosity to their children will
encourage them to behave in the same way.

Parents should express their unconditional love for
their children, as well as provide them with the continued support they need to
become self-assured and happy.

It is also important that parents set reasonable
expectations for their children and tell them in plain words what they expect
from them.

Why is discipline necessary?

Discipline is important when bringing up a child.
Through discipline your child learns that some kinds of behaviour are
acceptable and others are not. Setting boundaries for children’s behaviour
helps them to learn how to behave in wider society.

Discipline is difficult to deal with because it
demands consistency (стойкость). Being a parent is a 24-hour job. The rules have to
apply every day.

Inconsistency and lack of discipline create confused
and rootless children who will test their parents constantly to find out what
the world is all about.

Spending enough time with your children

Finding time to spend together as a family can be
difficult. In many households, parents have to go to work, which limits the
time they have to spend with their children. In addition, children are involved
in school and other activities.

Try to arrange a time each day, such as during
breakfast or dinner, when the entire family can be together. Fixed routines are
important for children.

It’s also a good idea for everyone to get together and
talk. Mealtimes provide a perfect opportunity to chat about the events of the
day. Everybody should take part in the conversation: parents should pay
attention and show interest in whatever their children say.

Children like to have special days reserved for
special activities. For example, Thursday afternoon at the library with Dad, or
Friday night swimming with Mum.

Encourage your children to take part in planning
activities. It’s good for a family to do a variety of fun things together, such
as playing games and going to the movies or concerts.

What will good communication teach children?

Offering explanations will help children work matters
out for themselves. Take time to point out how things are connected, for
example, in terms of cause and effect.

Parents who think out loud with their children will
see them develop a similar train of thought. They will learn to talk and think
in a more sophisticated way.

If parents express emotions and feelings, their
children will learn it’s okay to do the same.

When your children want to talk or ask questions,
encourage them. If you are dismissive (безразличный) or always say you
are too busy, they may express frustration and stop wanting to share their
thoughts and feelings.

If the family has a problem that concerns your child,
involve them in the discussion. Try to find possible solutions together with
him or her.

When discussing options, also talk about consequences.
The possible outcome will influence your final decision. Be open to the child’s
suggestions. Let them take part in the negotiations and the decision.

A child who experiences this kind of communication
will become very confident and learn the rules of good communication.

Everyone says that youth is probably the best time of our life — that being young means love, friendship and romance, new discoveries and so on. But it is also the most difficult time for making some very important decisions which will have influence on all our life. Our time is not the easiest even for adults, but for teenagers who are to find own place in the society, is very difficult, that`s why parents must help their children solve youth problems and children should be a good and positive example for them showing how it is important to treat other people with respect. I think that all these can really help construct good relationship between parents and children.

But in our modern life there is often a lack of communication between parents and their children. Lack of the love and attention to children can make them unhappy. One can simply open the daily newspaper to find teenagers committing suicide or various crimes due to stress derived from family issues. These incidents reveal the importance of parents` communication with their children. Love for their children is within every parent, which is frequently revealed through the concern they show. But superfluous control can not in the best way influence on child. Often children at school or in the street begin mock at this child. Call him nondependent. In result of this pressure child lose his temper and starts be rude, closed. I think parents should not all the time control their children. Sometimes they have to allow freedom.

As for me, I get on very well with my parents. Whenever I have problems with my friends or with or with my schoolwork, I know they are always there to listen and give advice. They have taught me a lot. They have got a lot of experience and they have always happy to share their knowledge with me. But sometimes my Mum and Dad seem to think I`m still a kid. When I go out with friends, I always have to be back home by ten o`clock and they call me on my mobile to check where I am. I have to ask permission for almost everything I do. It doesn`t seem fair sometimes but I anyway love my parents very much and I think they are the kindest in the whole world.

In conclusion, the ability to solve or avoid family problems depends on children and parents. If the relationship between parents and children is based on love, mutual respect, and kindness, the family will be happy.

Перевод:

Все говорят, что молодость, вероятно, самое лучшее время нашей жизни. Молодость — это любовь, дружба, романтика, новые открытия и т.д. Но это также самое трудное время для принятия очень важныхрешений, которые повлияют на всю нашу жизнь. Наше время не простое даже для взрослых, не говоря уже и о подростках, которые должны найти свое место в обществе, (а это очень сложно). Именно поэтому родители должны помогать своим детям решать трудные вопросы, а дети должны быть хорошим и положительным примером для них, показывая, как важно относиться к другим людям с уважением. Я думаю, что все это может действительно помочь построить хорошие отношения между родителями и детьми.

Но в современной жизни существует проблема недостатка общения между родителями и детьми. Недостаток любви и внимания к детям может сделать их несчастными. Можно просто открыть ежедневную газету и найти статьи о том, как подростки кончают жизнь самоубийством, или статьи о том, как подростки совершают преступления из-за стресса, полученного в семье. Эти инциденты показывают важность общения родителей со своими детьми. Любовь к своим детям, которая существует в пределах каждого родителя, часто раскрывается через беспокойство к своему ребёнку. Но чрезмерный контроль может повлиять не самым лучшим способом на ребенка. Часто дети в школе или на улице начинают издеваться над ребенком, который подвержен излишнему вниманию родителей. Называют его несамостоятельным. В результате этого давления ребенок сердиться, становится грубым замкнутым. Я думаю, что родители не должны все время контролировать своих детей. Иногда они должны обеспечить свободу.

Что касается меня, у меня хорошие взаимоотношения с родителями. Всякий раз, когда у меня случаются проблемы с друзьями или с уроками, я знаю, что они всегда выслушают и дадут совет. Они научили меня многому. Мои родители имеют большой жизненный опыт, и всегда рады поделиться своими знаниями со мной. Но иногда мои родители думают, что я еще ребенок. Когда я иду гулять друзьями, я всегда должна возвращаться домой к десяти часам. Они обычно звонят мне на мобильный телефон, чтобы проверить, где я нахожусь. Я должна спрашивать разрешения на почти все, что я делаю. Иногда мне кажется это несправедливым, но я все равно очень люблю своих родителей, и думаю, что они самые добрые во всем мире!

В заключение хотелось бы сказать, что способность решать или избегать проблемы в семье зависит как от родителей, так и от детей. Если отношения между родителями и детьми, основаны на любви, взаимном уважении, и доброте, семья будет счастлива.